[it does set him off more! he doesn't like how trapped it makes him feel, unable to move from the wall with jyn right in front of him like she's boxing him in. there are approximately zero things he can control in this current situation and it just makes him madder.]
Do not try to tell me I told you so.
[he knows it should have been sooner. he knows he should have listened to her sooner. it should have been easy but it wasn't, for a lot of reasons. even as he sits here tired of it, he's still struggling against his need to fix it.]
If it was that easy, you would have done something about your own pain before now too. I can only do this one step at a time.
There is no reason you cannot fix it anyway. [her shoulder is not the subject at hand, but as always, it's easier to pretend to focus on something else than himself.]
I know that. [maybe she is tired of taking care of him in those situations too. it probably puts too much on her. he feels safe enough to trust her with it, but maybe it's becoming tedious. tiring. as exhausting for her as it is for him. she did flee.]
[he looks away to glare at the floor.] I thought I deserved it. That it was a price to this second chance I had to manage.
[the biggest block to fixing himself: feeling like he had to just suffer through it. a physical consequence.] But I died. Why should that not be enough? What else could any galaxy possibly want from me?
[ jyn outright ignores his comment about her shoulder. she could fix it -- she could probably get a whole new joint put in, minimally invasive, and be done with it. but jyn's shoulder is a hassle, not something the really affects her quality of life.
it's the rest of what he say that has her moving. she was going to give him his space but not anymore. she climbs right into his lap, sitting on his thighs over the blanket and puts a hand on either side of his face, forcing him to look up at her. ]
The galaxy can go fuck itself. And the Force, as well. You do not deserve this kind of pain or self-loathing, you do not deserve the guilt you carry. [ the force, the galaxy, it doesn't just get to give them each other and think that will make everything better. it did, it does, but it doesn't erase the pain. ]
Death was enough. Now we get to live. And maybe that means taking time off to recover finally, maybe it means a break to fix ourselves. But do not ever think you deserve any of this hurt.
[he stiffens immediately when she crawls on him, not because it hurts, but because he's still in such an incredibly distracted and despairing state that he isn't sure he wants to be touched yet - but he doesn't push her away. as much as he's still simmering, cassian never shies away from her touch.]
[his jaw is tight while he takes everything she says in. it's easy to say, easy to hear, but it's another to implement. if anyone would be honest with him, it's jyn, but he has a whole lifetime of guilt that can't be erased just because she tells him he doesn't deserve it. he wants to believe her.]
[he just doesn't know how.]
I cannot just stop feeling it. It does not work that way. [and she should know.] I have hated myself for so long it was just a fact I told myself.
I don't - I don't want any of this, but it does not mean it isn't there. I cannot turn it off because you say I do not deserve.
I know. It is going to take longer to heal than any physical injury.
[ she does know. they hate themselves, but cassian has more guilt and grief walled up inside him that it is a wonder it hasn't burst out before now. a good, solid defense mechanism that is finally cracking. ]
You know I would love to ignore all of this, but it's not tenable anymore. Especially if it keeps us from taking care of ourselves. [ she huffs out a breath like a sigh, shoulders slumping slightly because this is a problem she doesn't know how to fix and she doesn't want cassian to hurt anymore but she can't do anything about it and it sucks. but it's not about her, so she packs those feelings away like a hypocrite. ]
[ it's like his fall cracked him wide open, and not just physically. he just assumed he wouldn't live long enough to have to deal with his feelings, and in some ways he was right, but then - this. this second chance, where he gets to love jyn and maybe learn to if not love himself maybe forgive himself. ]
If I am going to try, you need to try too. [ he knows this is all brought about by his injury, but they're so tangled together in this he can't ignore it. she said so herself, it's not tenable. for either of them. ]
[ his whole body is still tense, but he suspects it's going to take a while to settle - partly because he doesn't want to quell his frustration right now. ]
I do not - I do not know how to start. I do not want to ignore it anymore, but what else is there? Yell into a pillow?
[ his tone is very sarcastic on that last note. ] How are we supposed to fix ourselves, Jyn?
[ maybe yelling in a pillow would work. jyn gets it out running, even more now since they'd moved out of their eleven story walk up so running was the only activity to release all her energy, but that isn't a feasible therapy for cassian. all of jyn's therapeutic activities were physical -- she exhausted herself until she numbed the feelings to something she could handle. ]
I guess... we ask for help. Go to medical, go to. [ she swallows back the idea of therapy because she doesn't want to have to explain their whole lives for context of why they're so young and so fucked up. ] We talk about it, even if it's just with each other. I don't know, Captain, but if you're in then I'm in. Promise.
[ he doesn't want to let go of his anger right now, because he's worried about whatever else might take his place. his anger is a comfort, and he understands more deeply now why it's jyn's default defense. ]
I have never been able to ask for help before. [ not like this. he lost in parents, fell into an anarchist cell, and they took care of him. the rebellion took him in next, but cassian always put off himself because there was never any time for that. ]
When I dropped you, it was like the universe trying to tell me... how dare you want something? You cannot ask for something, for yourself. I struggle with it all the time, and now to have this physical barrier.
[ he drops his head back against the wall, closes his eyes. his face is lined with frustration more than pain, preferring the emotional feeling to the physical one. after a few moments he opens his eyes again, looking over at her. ] For the medical, will you - will you come with me?
[ he knows she just said they're in this together, but he has to ask anyway. ] I am in.
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Do not try to tell me I told you so.
[he knows it should have been sooner. he knows he should have listened to her sooner. it should have been easy but it wasn't, for a lot of reasons. even as he sits here tired of it, he's still struggling against his need to fix it.]
If it was that easy, you would have done something about your own pain before now too. I can only do this one step at a time.
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I don't want you to hurt anymore but there is nothing else I can do to make it better.
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I know that. [maybe she is tired of taking care of him in those situations too. it probably puts too much on her. he feels safe enough to trust her with it, but maybe it's becoming tedious. tiring. as exhausting for her as it is for him. she did flee.]
[he looks away to glare at the floor.] I thought I deserved it. That it was a price to this second chance I had to manage.
[the biggest block to fixing himself: feeling like he had to just suffer through it. a physical consequence.] But I died. Why should that not be enough? What else could any galaxy possibly want from me?
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it's the rest of what he say that has her moving. she was going to give him his space but not anymore. she climbs right into his lap, sitting on his thighs over the blanket and puts a hand on either side of his face, forcing him to look up at her. ]
The galaxy can go fuck itself. And the Force, as well. You do not deserve this kind of pain or self-loathing, you do not deserve the guilt you carry. [ the force, the galaxy, it doesn't just get to give them each other and think that will make everything better. it did, it does, but it doesn't erase the pain. ]
Death was enough. Now we get to live. And maybe that means taking time off to recover finally, maybe it means a break to fix ourselves. But do not ever think you deserve any of this hurt.
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[his jaw is tight while he takes everything she says in. it's easy to say, easy to hear, but it's another to implement. if anyone would be honest with him, it's jyn, but he has a whole lifetime of guilt that can't be erased just because she tells him he doesn't deserve it. he wants to believe her.]
[he just doesn't know how.]
I cannot just stop feeling it. It does not work that way. [and she should know.] I have hated myself for so long it was just a fact I told myself.
I don't - I don't want any of this, but it does not mean it isn't there. I cannot turn it off because you say I do not deserve.
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[ she does know. they hate themselves, but cassian has more guilt and grief walled up inside him that it is a wonder it hasn't burst out before now. a good, solid defense mechanism that is finally cracking. ]
You know I would love to ignore all of this, but it's not tenable anymore. Especially if it keeps us from taking care of ourselves. [ she huffs out a breath like a sigh, shoulders slumping slightly because this is a problem she doesn't know how to fix and she doesn't want cassian to hurt anymore but she can't do anything about it and it sucks. but it's not about her, so she packs those feelings away like a hypocrite. ]
Just try.
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If I am going to try, you need to try too. [ he knows this is all brought about by his injury, but they're so tangled together in this he can't ignore it. she said so herself, it's not tenable. for either of them. ]
[ his whole body is still tense, but he suspects it's going to take a while to settle - partly because he doesn't want to quell his frustration right now. ]
I do not - I do not know how to start. I do not want to ignore it anymore, but what else is there? Yell into a pillow?
[ his tone is very sarcastic on that last note. ] How are we supposed to fix ourselves, Jyn?
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[ maybe yelling in a pillow would work. jyn gets it out running, even more now since they'd moved out of their eleven story walk up so running was the only activity to release all her energy, but that isn't a feasible therapy for cassian. all of jyn's therapeutic activities were physical -- she exhausted herself until she numbed the feelings to something she could handle. ]
I guess... we ask for help. Go to medical, go to. [ she swallows back the idea of therapy because she doesn't want to have to explain their whole lives for context of why they're so young and so fucked up. ] We talk about it, even if it's just with each other. I don't know, Captain, but if you're in then I'm in. Promise.
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I have never been able to ask for help before. [ not like this. he lost in parents, fell into an anarchist cell, and they took care of him. the rebellion took him in next, but cassian always put off himself because there was never any time for that. ]
When I dropped you, it was like the universe trying to tell me... how dare you want something? You cannot ask for something, for yourself. I struggle with it all the time, and now to have this physical barrier.
[ he drops his head back against the wall, closes his eyes. his face is lined with frustration more than pain, preferring the emotional feeling to the physical one. after a few moments he opens his eyes again, looking over at her. ] For the medical, will you - will you come with me?
[ he knows she just said they're in this together, but he has to ask anyway. ] I am in.